Let us
first put a light on ‘STEREOTYPING’
It’s
when someone says “ye log toh aise hi
hote hai”
How
often do we stereotype?
How
much do we rely on these 'never should have existed' notions to judge people
and conclude facts?
It’s ridiculously
unfair and demeaning to slot people as a 'kind' just because they have
something in common. Its disrespectful because that way one’s uniqueness as a
human is not heeded and all doors to further explore a person and celebrate
their individuality are rotted by those sticky notes [typical notion reminders]
we hang on to every time.
I, for
one, realized that most of us are already pros at judging people with our
scarce knowledge about their 'type'.
But
what is a 'type' here? Well that has a huge range. It includes castes, place
one belongs to or puts up, gender, orientation, body type and everything you
can think of, that makes the one typecasting a racistically narrow minded piece of living meat who is so obvious about
the world.
Lets
hold it, not all men are dogs, not all fancy dressing girls are bitches, not every
fat person is fat because they hog like a panda [even if they do, I am sure no
one is stealing from your plate], not every person who frequently likes your
‘status’ posts on FB has a crush on you! Being a bitch is open to the whole
human race, any one is open to be anything they please. BTW what do people mean
when they say men are dogs? Dogs (the canine breed) are faithful, selfless and
loving and always chasing bitches and..oh okay well!
So
yeah, there is this fine line between stereotyping and being judgmental. You
could use the signs you take note of to judge a person but just don't typecast
anyone. You could think the topper of your class who wears huge glasses is a
nerd, but it’s baseless when you start believing every person with huge glasses is
a nerd.
Moreover
such stereotypes make people be/do/not be/not do something, so that people
assume them to be the thing that comes with it, like a man wouldn’t cry because
its not how men are, a blonde dies her hair black because she doesn’t want people
to think she’s dumb, or a guy gets piercing, tattoos and a leather jacket so
people think he’s a badass!
Not every iPhone user feels stupid of their
decisions. Not every BB user is a professional, actually I know nobody who has
a BB and a job too..!?!
Okay
just kidding.
Long story short, ‘YE’
category ke saare log ek jaise nahi hote.